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well the guy im really close too, and i like is asking my BEST friend out tomrow, and like im suporting him and stuff
and she knows he knows and she like just started liking him and everyones like didnt you like him first and stuff and im like w/e
but its kinda bugging me
cuz she like is all happy but im hapy for her its just she like brags , and acts like shes everything now and is like im not sure
what to do
should i just let it happen, if i do ill never get a chance with him cuz if she already dated him wel until next year.
she dated like 2 people this year, then my other friends dated everyone else
its not fair, i really want a bf
but i dont think im ever going to get one
help?
tips?
ideas?

If she's a real friend, she will listen when you talk to her about this and understand. You need to talk to her! She may be a little unhappy about this, because you didn't mention it earlier, but if you're best friends, can't she tell when you're annoyed? If not, you aren't as close as you should be. It may be possible that she's never had anyone like her that way before like he does, so she's just happy and wants to share it with you. Haven't you been happy about something like that where you told everyone? I sure have! Lol
Anyway, what I'm basically trying to say is, this is a test of how strong your friendship really is, but don't stop being friends with her just because of that. You should either talk to the guy you're close with and wants to ask her out, or talk to her-just someone. It's important that you make an effort to be close to them so they will understand your situation! One day, she'll like a guy that you like and he'll ask you out instead. She can be jealous all she wants (I don't mean to be rude) because she had her bragging rights. But until them, just respect your friendship, and I hope everything works out.
XoxO
-Depressed_Poet

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(Rating: 5) aww thank youu.
xoxox
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