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I really thing i am a nice guy. I like helping ppl a lot but the basic problem is that i am an average looking guy. I am not such a dude type....or somewhat of that kind that ppl call cool....I always wish to have a girl friend but somehow dont believe in going around proposing the girl, i find beautiful. sometimes i think a lot about this as i wish to find that one spl friend whome i can trust and talk to. i still do not understand when will i find that spl friend??? also answer this question how will that help me in solving my mastuerbation problem.

well, for the obvious reason, finding that special someone who is willing and wanting to be with you in that way, will help with your masterbation. you say "masterbation problem" once again, i don't believe that it is a "problem" you are a young man and it is to be expected that you would be interested in this sort of activity.

as for the girlfriend. i met my husband online about 7 years ago when i was then just 17 years old. we were great email buddies for about 8 months before i started to develop a crush on him. by then i was 18 years old and wanted to pursue it further. we connected in that way and just a few months later i went to visit him. eventually i moved to be with him, and the rest is said and done.

i can't tell you the best places to go, or the best things to say to girls to get them to want to be with you. all i can think of is cruise the internet, not for love, but for friendship.. maybe love will develop later.

also, look into becoming active in things in your community.. not only will it help you develop yourself, but it will open up doors to meeting new friends, and possibly love interests.

good luck, and remember love comes faster when your not looking for it.

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