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I use to be on this site all the time. Got sick of reading the same exact questions and basically copying and pasting my answers because no one cared to read questions asked before them. So I left and haven't really been on here.
Ps. I'm not perfect and my advice isn't always right. & sometimes I choose to make it sound like you will get hurt more than you actually will to prevent people from doing stupid things. Like if I get drunk what can happen? Well i might just say you can die.....stretching the truth but I think its better than having people go out and get drunk. Plus you can die but you would have to have alcohol poisoning.

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I hope I picked the right category but here it goes...
Alright so im 13/f and my cousin is 23/f. shes been dating her boyfriend for 2 years and she broke up with him and so he killed himself. he warned her that if she broke up with him he'd kill himself. hes only 23! or was..
anyway, him and her dad didnt get along very well. i feel so bad for him bcuz he was brokenhearted but he was a HUGE JERK! His parents are blaming it on HER! I feel so bad 4 her and im not gonna get into details of what he said but he was like "dont worry baby it's not your fault, you arent doing this to me" just to make her feel worse! what can i do to make her feel better? im kinda shy around her cuz i barely know her but i wanna make her feel better please help!

Wow I'm sorry. Umm ok, first of all she has to ask for advice or want to talk about it because she may not want to. Therefore she has to start the conversation first. If she doesn't then don't bring it up and don't push. But if you do start talking about it, you have to make it blatantly obvious that it is not her fault. Keep repeating that and make sure she really knows it. It was his selfish act to take his life. But I wouldn't bash the guy to much. I mean he is dead and you shouldn't bash people that have passed away to much. Bottom line just be there for her. Thats all you really can do.

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