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Just a couple of things which everyone should know..
1) A love relationship is a TWO way thing, you BOTH have to be on the SAME page.. Communication is vital. FACT.
2) You don't need negative people in your life to bring you down, you get enough of that as it is. You need positive people, to raise you higher.. FACT.
3) Believe in yourself, if you start to, everyone else will. So focus on the good things, because that is what you will naturally flaunt.. Which makes everyone focus on the good things! TRUTH.
4) You only live once, so don't screw it up! Make the most of this ONE life! FACT.
5) Life's all about making mistakes, forgiving, letting go, falling in love, making friends, and best of all, LAUGHING OUT LOUD!! ;) Laughter IS the best medicine.. Trust me! ;) FACT.

Got some love life issues? Need a quick self-esteem boost? Confused in a relationship? .... Just ask Venzuela!

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Okay, there's this guy named patrick and i like him a lot. and he sorta said he likes me (don't ask how he sorta said he likes me). Everyone is saying that he does and taht it's obvious...I'm just to blind and ignorant to see it. Anywhos my friend Matt somehow got patricks number out of a kid that knew him saying that it was for a girl who has a crush on him...duh. haha but the kid doesn't know its me and patrick never gave me his number. i have lunch with patrick everyday but no classes with him whatsoever.

Matt keeps on urging me to tell patrick that i like him before he loses interest in me and i really want to. the think is i am HORRIBLE at doing this. especially talking face to face or just telling it. so matt told me to write a note and i agreed. now the problem is that i don't know what to do. like i can't call him because he doesn't know i have his number and the explanation behind that is staklerish. i can give him a note but what should i write in there? i want to keep it playful and frivolous so that if he doesn't like me in that way i can get myself out of that situation. do you get what i'm saying? haha or sohuld i just ask him to join me and my friends for a movie and somehow tell him there or make it obiovus that i really like him? ah just how sohuld i tell him?

Well, writing a note is a great idea, lets say he is tall, shaggy hair, brown eyes and loves to play basket ball and is in your math class, tell him something like this, 'I don't know if you could help me but I have a tiny problem, I like this guy who is in my math class and he has brown eyes, shaggy hair and loves to play basket ball, he is tall! And I know you know him really well! You guys are like twins, and so I don't know if he likes me or still does?' Basically, make it obvious that he is the guy you like, that way, you are flirty, playful and making it obvious to him that you like him.
About the number, ask him for it when you two have lunch, and give him yours, if he asks why you're giving him your number just say, 'You will need it some day!' and walk off! Its def flirty!
When everything starts coming together, he may ask you out! Remember, love grows... If he has lost a little bit of interest in you, it will definately grow after sometime and especially after you tell him through the note, that you like him!

Thankyou!
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