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Hey kids! My name is Amanda, but call me Manders. I'm a psychology/neuroscience/biology student. Throw me questions and I'll throw you an answer. :)

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13/f
I only like the guys that like me. I'm intimidated the guys that I really do like and I feel like he'll never like me. So whenever a guy likes me first I feel braver. I end up liking the guy that liked me first.
Am I just desperate? I know that I don't have to worry about if he likes me, so I just want to be with him, even if I really don't like him. Am I desperate for a boyfriend?

I have a friend who is just like you. She finds out a guy likes her, she ends up liking him for a while, they go out, and then she breaks up with him because she's sick of him. So, you're not the only girl who does this.

You said that the guys that you REALLY like intimidate you. It doesn't mean that you're desperate; You just like the attention that the guys give you, not the guy himself.

I think that you need to have more confidence in yourself. You need to believe that you're worthy of being liked. You may not think you are, but you are! Look in the mirror and say to yourself, "I look good today!" Stop telling yourself that you're ugly, fat, etc. Love yourself, and others will, too.

I hope I helped, and if you have any more questions, feel free to leave one in my inbox!
-Manders

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(Rating: 5) Thanks for that you really cleared my problem up.
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