I don't know what category this would go in, so forgive me if it's in the wrong category.
Let's call my friend Jane.
And let's call her boyfriend John.
Okay, well, Jane and John, who were in 11th grade at the time, decided to have sex one day and Jane ended up pregnant. It just so happens, I liked John a lot, but I knew that Jane loved him with all her heart. Now Jane is talking about how hard it is being a mother of a 5-month-old and stuff. It's sort of making me jealous.
I'm just afraid that I'm going to go have sex with some guy I don't even like to have a baby and see what it's like.
So, my question is, Is there any way I can see how hard it is being a teen mother without actually having to go through the pregnancy? Like, not like one of those psycho baby doll things people do in middle school, but like, staying with someone who has a newborn baby or something to convince me I don't want a baby? Or should I just have a baby and get it over with?
Thanks in advance!
yeah babysit for jane's baby and you'll know what she's talking about i have a single mother aunt one day i spent the night at her house to help her with the baby and it was really anoying baby woke up like every 2 hours :S and wont stop crying..also the most important thing to me about being a teen mother ..is that you have to drop off school its so dificult and then how will you pay for all the baby stuff? another thing its that most of the teen mothers broke up with the baby's father because they where inmature at the time they had their baby and its sooooooooooo difficult for teen moms to get a partner for life :S not all the guys want to have a girlfriend with a baby :s also everything most be done during the right time teen moms don't get to enjoy most of the good parts of being young =) ..you are your only responsability ,, go to parties , get a career , enjoy with friends, hang out . when your young you have the world for yourself i know it sounds stupid but you can do things that when your 30 with kids you won't do ..enjoy your youth =)
Diane
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Thanks a lot, Diane.
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