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Ok so my friends do these things they call bashings. It's where we sit in a circle and tell esch other what we don't like each other. I hate it i think it's ridiculous casue i feel like their trying to stream line me so i'm some form of perfect friend robot.
They say it's so we don't talk behind each others back. Whenever i say i think it's stupid and it hurts me they just say i'm so sensitive and can't handle critism.
What do you think is it a good idea or stupid?
What should i do?
i think theres good to know what bothering other people, but also i know that truth can hurt , any constructive critisism must be welcome also your friends should say the truth in a way it won't hurt so much , if they really are your friends they woudn't say anything that really hurts you badly.
also you can tell them that your not confortable by hearing them critisicing you, although it is not to make you the perfect friedn but maybe they do it in the good way for example. when somethings really bothering you about a person but you don't want to ruin friendship you would want to tell this friend what the problem is so they can fix it .=) hope it helped a little bit
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oh tottaly it's just they say stupid little crap like i don't like a sound you make. I mean seriously how the hell am i supposed to know i do crap like that haha.
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