hello! my name is amber and i have been through a lot over the years! my father died when i was 6 years old and 6 years later i developed an auto-immune disease called lupus. i have been in and out of the hospital many time and have been through severe pain physically, and mentally because of it. no question is too odd or confusing, and i will try my best to give you my best and most honest advice. i am very spiritual and into positive thinking, so i could also help you out with anything having to do with finding your way in life. love and light!
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ok, basic story in short form: girl gets boyfriend, almost three months later girl and boy are planing to go to school dance. girl's mom wants her to get readdy at mom's. girl wants to get readdy at dad's (divorced parents since girl was like 2). mom feels hurt. mom is kinda pissed off at girl. girl now feels guilty. mom tells girl point blank that girl must get readdy at mom's for prom in two years...girl is not sure if she wants too. but girl still feels guilty about getting readdy at dad's for her frist fromal dance with boy. should girl be feeling guilty???
please help! i feel horrible!
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I dont think you should feel guilty at all... I wouldnt worry about it because peopple get in fights sooo much with their parents and some people dont at all but everyones different. I think that with you parents divorced and all you might get in more situations like these. so you should choose whcih one you would like to spend at your Dad's more, and then tell your mom that you'll spen the other one with her to make it up. Plus your mom can probablly help you more on getting ready and tips and things, you should maybe try to give her a chance at it :D
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thanks, i'll see what happends at the next dance then!
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