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Q: i dont know.. lately i just feel like i really wanna be called beautiful.. or smart..or just anything positive, i feel like i really need to hear something good about myself or hear someone tell me they love me, or atleast admire me or something.. thats weird, right? like i feel kinda lonely, and unappreciated. and i dont know what to do to get rid of this feeling. its like i cant feel goood about myself unless someone tells me im good. and i cant feel beautiful unless someone tells me im beautiful. and i cant feel smart unless someone tells me im smart. you get the picture right?

so what do i do about it??
there are alot of people who feel the same way.
but...you can be a leech and always suck the strenght of off other people or you may become your own best friend. im willing to bet that you never have someshing good to say to yourself. stop it, and start telling yourself the things you want to hear.
"£$% everybody else, theres not always going to be people around to pick you up, so learn to do it yourself.
do EVERYTHING and ANYTHING to build your self esteem, even if you have to go for therapy. it WILL be worth it, and you ARE worth the effort.
sorry if i sound a bit harsh, best of luck to you.

aww thanks alot you're awesome!

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