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Over the years I've trained my body to withstand pleasure and concentrate on something else. Now when me and my girlfriend have sex, it lasts for hours, is this normal? One night we went for four hours straight using no pills no attatchments and none of any of those other lovely toys. Is it a bad thing that this lasts this long? How long should it last? Usually I just go until she's completely exhausted and it still feels like I can get up and run a marathon as if nothing had happened. I think there's something wrong with me. Please, if anyone knows how I can fix this tell me. Thanx o^.^o (link)
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Also train yourself to accept pleasure.
In any scenario where you have one answer, one way of responding, despite the situation, eventually there will be a problem because the answer doesn't fit the optimum response to the current situation.
Try to make love differently each time.
Use lots of lube, especially if it starts to get dry, painful, or uninteresting for your partner.
And note that i say make love, not just run an endurance race. Sometimes men have odd notions that being big, having sex for a long time, or fast-fucking, or other displays of strength and masculinity are huge turnons for a woman. Often that is not what will turn her on the most.
Find what turns her on. Vary your lovemaking style. Don't worry about orgasming - that'll happen when the time is right.
Luyah
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thank you very much, i really appreciate the advice, i've honestly never looked at it that way since we started dating, thank u
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