ask thenameswhales



read advice get advice make favorite read feedback advicenators




Website: you can do it we can help
E-mail: haley1023@comcast.net
Gender: Female
Location: greenfiled MA
Occupation: therapist
Age: 15
AIM: thenameswhales
Member Since: October 8, 2006
Answers: 11
Last Update: November 20, 2007
Visitors: 2085

Main Categories:
Love Life
Families
Friendship
View All

Favorite Columnists
EvJPleasant
okay so it's kinda hard to find a bathing suit in the winter..
does anyone know where i can find one in stores? or even from a website that you know of. i tried googling it but it gives me these weird sites with ugly suits. i'm looking for one with a regular bikini top and boy shorts. i'm going to an indoor water park in january and i want to get it soon if i might be ordering it offline

any help is mucho appreciated!
thanks :D (link)
delias.com
usually always has a bathingsuit collection. and check the victoriasecret sales, they usually have a TON of extra stock for last season, or evern upcoming stuff. =)


Whats the difference between bi and bi-curious?
(link)
honestly it comes down to this.
Bi is when you are interested in both genders. male and female.

Bi-curious. is basically the term... curious to have sex with anyone. and people who say they are bi-curious are basically saying they would do anything with anyone.


hey i am 16 and female...i just recently moved but i have been considered depressed for 3 years but really didnt say anything but now after the move i feel worse...i am never really happy and i feel like i just really dont want to be here... how can i have happiness again..and how can i feel alive?
eissac
(link)
Hmmm i know exactly what you mean! its hard to put on that happy face every day, if you have no reason to be happy.... but i suggest doing something that you woulndn't normally do. Go out on a limb. Invite yourself to sit with a different group at lunch, or joion the soccer team. DO something shocking to get out of your phunk. keep yourself occupied, it will keep your mind from wandering so much. Also if your ever feeling really down in the dumps, try to find your confort spot. it could be a place or and object or a person, but do what you have to do to calm down and move on. hope this helps


im a twin and i feel as if my dad treats my sister differently than me .. she snuck out of the house and got caught and she didnt even get grounded while me on the other hand didnt tell my dad all the details about my friends sweet sixteen and i was grounded from my boyfriend for a week .. does anyone know what i can do? (link)
I don't have a twin, but i've had some similar situations in my life so i iknoow exactly what your saying. The only thing that i think will really work is if u confront your dad. Tell him exactly how you feel, he can't argue with how you feel. SO make sure u saying when you treat her this way I FEEL....If you don't see improvements, then i'd suggest going to your mom or someone else in your household. make that person understand how you feel, and then ask them if they can talk to your dad, because your message obviously didn't get across to him. I hope this helps! good luck


my mom is having her 29th birthday and ma bff invited me to the ross game and then go to the haunted hydro so wut should i do i think that i should go to ma moms b-day and then go to the hydro so wut should i do ?????????????
(link)
I know right now going with your friend for a weekend seems really important, but in the long run your mom is the one that has always been there for you. Friends will come and go, but your mom will be there for ever. And think about how much your mom does ofor you.... take this time to show her how much u care about her, and that u choose her over your friends.


Does anal sex hurt? (link)
duhh


What can I do to get my dog to stop humping everything in sight? (link)
dogs have minds of their own, so they can't always be that perfect dog. If your dog is a puppy i suggest obbediant school, if not whens he gonna kick it?


I'm wondering what i should do to get a good girlfriend i really want one, but dont know who i really like to so i guess thats a problem. anyway wondering if i could get your help, any one help for that matter who knows about realtion ships. (link)
well if you're looking to have a relationship with a girl, you can't go fishing for her. You'll know if you like a girl or not, and you'll know when it's the right time to have a gf.

If you want to find out if anyone likes you, maybe you should try putting yourself out there. double up on the axe, wear what you wear, and ingage in small talk with the girls. A greaat way to get a girlfriend, is to become friends with them first.... it may take more time, but it will be worth it in the long run.


What is a better sport softball or baseball? (link)
i think that's more of an opinion question, it really depends on what you prefer. but it my opinion .....

ROCK ON SOFTBALL!


Dearest Whales,

I think my boyfriend of 4 years might be gay. He keeps asking if we can go figure skating and he tries on my lingerie for fun.

What should I do? (link)
Well first of all, This could simply be a cry out to his femine side, he might not nessisarily be gay. Many teenage boys get confused about themselves and lost with whats right and wrong at this age.maybe you should confront him about your concerns. If this doesnt work, hide your lingerie.


do girls really have an excuse to be pissy during their time of the month or is that all an act? (link)
ohhh yes my dear ohh yess! my advice... give them chocolate! and they will love you forever!! or at least until next month =p




read advice get advice make favorite read feedback advicenators

<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>

eXTReMe Tracker