THE NAME IS BETH.
i live in the great state of pennsylvania and love it.
im a pretty easy going person and easy to get along with.
i love meeting new people,,but im very shy
im 15,, freshman
i hate people that think they are better than everyone else, becuase they're obviously not.
i never get mad,, but my feelings get hurt easily.
God is very important to me,, im catholic.
food is love.
i love helping people,, which is why i subscribed to this site.
im a generally nice person, and i dont have any enemies.
Website: BETH
E-mail: BRWeller92891@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Pennsylvania
Occupation: student.
Age: 15
AIM: SugaRHigH2891
Member Since: November 15, 2006
Answers: 6
Last Update: November 23, 2006
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Well i'm in the 8th grade, and I dont have a best friend... is that bad??? I'm not saying that I am lonely and I have no friends, I have plenty of friends.. just none of them are actually my BEST friends. Arn't best friends supposed to be there for you when you're feeling low? and they always come and sleepover and you always share secrets with each other? welll it seems like whenever I go up to my other friends, they are always busy with 'their' other best friends. It's like they have no intrest in me anymore. My brother just moved away to college and my cousin is staying with us for a while. I have a dog, could that be my best friend? I just feel like I have a lot of depression going on in my life and I really need somebody to talk to. yes, i know.......... I can talk to you on advicenators, but I need somebody not only for talking... but to share my happy moments with, a best friend
and I know you'll say talk to your family.... but the thing is.. both of my parents are ALWAYS working... they leave the house way earlier than I do... and the next time I see them is when i'm asleep. Its just not fair. My brother is in college, and my cousin is always hanging out with his friends or finding some excuse not to be in the house. I'm really sad that I dont have a best friend, and I'm a very busy person.... could that be the reason why I dont have a best friend? cause i'm always busy and they never have any time with me????????
You might say join a school activity and meet friends there... but TRUST ME! I dont make friends easily, lets just say I get SUPER SUPER SUPER nervous when I meet new people, or give a speech to a class. PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!! I FEEL SO ALONE.... I always see kids in the hallway, hanging out with their best friends, and I am really sad that I dont have a best friend there by me. WHAT SHOULD I DO????????????
OH AND IF YOU COULD: ANOTHER QUESTION= HOW DO I GET RID OF THE FEAR OF MEETING NEW PEOPLE AND GIVING OUT SPEECHES??????????????? THANKS SOOOOOOOOO MUCH... I KNOW THIS WAS LONG, BUT THANKS (link)
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holy wow. you sound EXACTLY like me when i was in 8th grade (last year). i didnt really have a best friend, but i still had friends. im the same way,, i get really depressed a lot and i get nervous when i meet new people. all you can really do is just try to talk to new people even though it might be hard. the only real way to overcome it is by doing it as often as you can. the more you talk to new people, the more you'll feel comfortable around them. keep trying to make plans with your current friends and eventually they have to have an opening in their schedule. just remember that a best friend is more than just a label. im sure that a lot of the people in your school just like to have the label of being "best friends", but really arent that close on an emotional level. but trust me,, you arent alone. i know A LOT of people that dont have best friends. it isnt just you. well this is getting super long,, but good luck with everything!!
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WOW! thank you! I'm already smiling!
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