Hi, im 14 and I could help you with any
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I have a pretty confusing situation.
I'm a girl, 15 and a sophomore. There are two guys that are involved, the first, whom I'll call L, is a really nice, funny, and cute guy. I talk to him every day, and I think that we're friends and get along pretty well. He's 17 and a senior, and I've liked him since about the 2nd week of this school year. The second guy, F, I only met less than a month ago. He is the sweetest guy I know, and we talk pretty often nowadays, which is weird, as he has said that he usually can't stand sophomores. He's also a senior, and kindof an artsy, non-conventional guy. The problems? L is dating an AMAZINGLY gorgeous and talented girl, who lives 6 hours away but he has been dating since summer. He's never talked to me about her, but this weekend I saw them together for the first time and I almost had a stroke, which is weird for me. F drinks, smokes, etc, while I am 100% straightedge. L also has a really cool girlfriend, whom he has been going out with at least since the summer, and I know reasonably well.
I don't want to be a homewrecker. Are my hopes way too high? Will I ever be anything than just a friend with either of them? Do I just wait it out and see what happens? Should I even bother with F?
If you could bring any clarity to this situation, I would appreciate it so much!
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wow, difficult situation, well first, i'd give you a hug, lol, now, you need to realize that the guy that Drinks and stuff, you have to know if he drinks, is he an ass when he does drink because if he is, you dont want anything to do with him, and with the other guy, if you like him and you really think you do, tell him, and maybe he will understand, Your not really being a homewrecker, you can't help what you feel, and who knows maybe he will realalize that he has a beautiful nice girl here, not 6 hours away. long tearm relashionships are hard to deal with, he might concider wanting to go out with you, if he likes you alot, Hopefully i helped
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Thanks for your help! The thing is, even though F does those things, he hasn't ever done anything to make me feel uncomfortable while I'm around him (he knows what my beliefs are and hasn't ever asked me to do anything that I'd be unsure of doing.)
With L, I just don't want things to be totally awkward between us, as I'd want to have him as a friend even if he didn't like me that way.
Thanks once again! :]
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