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Hey!

I'm Jacky. =]

I used to have a pic of me up but now I don't because that one was really old but I'll be getting a new one soon.

I was born in Augsburg, Germany although I've lived in many other places because my dad was in the army and right now I am currently living in Rochester, Minnesota.

I hate the weather here.

I wish I could move back to Germany because I love it there. All my relatives live there.

I'm sane here because I have my friends and family.

I'm pretty optimistic most of the time unless someone gets on my really bad side and I try to be positive. It's hard sometimes.

I love to give people advice. I'm pretty good at that.

I play soccer and tennis. I'm pretty athletic and I love to dance. I used to be in precision. I also love to sing.

I'm pretty outgoing even around strangers but that's nothing new. Haha.

If you want to get to know me more just IM me on aim or something or if you need advice just ask anytime because I'm on daily.

Thanks lots!
Jacky.

advice

I've got this amazing friend, John. I always joke around with him and everything with him and my best friend, Deanna, over the computer, but when it comes to actually hanging out.. it's a different story. While Deanna and I constantly are together, John only seems to want to talk to us when it's either conveniant for him, or when it's not in person.
For example, John, Deanna, our friend Alex and I all went to the movies to hang out. Well, Deanna, Alex and I all had a great time. We talked, laughed and everything, but John seemed to just completly be concentrated on the movie only, and when he wasn't, he was texting with some of his other friends. He pretty much didn't talk to us all until one of his newer friends met up with us at the therter..
He has made all these new friends, and I'm fine with him having friends, but he seems to be forgetting Deanna and I. He also seems to be more arrogant, because all of these girls happen to be alot prettier, and more popular than us.
He's just seemed to change.. and I really miss the old John, who I used to be able to joke around with, not having to worry about confrontation.
And I'm not flipping out all of a sudden, either.. This has been an on-going thing, and I've talked to him about it a few times. I don't pin blame or anything, but he's still not getting that he's not being the kindest person lately..

Please tell me what I should do.. I know not to push him away or anything, but.. what do I do to get everything like it used to be?

Thank you in advance, Sam

I've had a similar situation..

Well If you've talked to him about it and he still doesn't get the memo then maybe he has changed and moved on.

You can't change time. Maybe you liked the way he was before but you can't change him back either.

People change and you have to deal with that. I mean you still have really good friends and I'm pretty sure their will be more to come.

But since he's not understanding or seeming to care about how you feel about him acting like that then you should just move on.

Telling him over and over and over is not gonna make anything better since he's hear it before so it's not like it's gonna get any better.

So just move on for now and try to think about more important things. I'm sure everything will go well for you.

Good luck. =]

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(Rating: 4) Thanks for helping out. I think I might try to take some of your advice to at least try to move on a bit. I'd really like to keep him as a friend, but I might just try to lay off for a bit. Thanks for helping, though!!

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