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I've been dating this guy for about five months now. I think we're perfect together & everytime I'm with him, he makes me the happiest girlfriend alive. He's like a part of my life & I really don't know what would happen if he weren't to be in my life anymore.

With that, we have this BIG disagreement.

He smokes weed, and I think it's REALLY gross. Ever since he met me, he has cut down, because he hangs out with me a lot, and he won't do it around me. He smoked weed for like three years before he met me, so it's not like he just recently started. I know weed isn't addicting, the only reason he likes it is because it's just nice to have every once in awhile.

I don't like weed because I just don't like how weird he acts when he's on it, it just scares me. He also says mean things about me, [I found his tape recorder & he ended up recording an entire conversation with his roommate talking about how unhappy he is with me!]

He said he's not willing to change & weed has been around a lot longer then me.

I'm lost, what should I do??

Thank you!

You wont like this answer, but its true. You can't change him & he shouldn't have to change for you. You're not his parents, you're the girlfriend. He likes it, when people like weed [I grew up with a brother who liked weed & I know many people who still do.] they 99.9% of the time will not change for anybody. You already told him how you felt, and Thats all you can really do. Now you leave it up to him, he either stops or doesn't. If you don't like it that much, its time to call it off.
He's choosing weed over you, and I know you noticed it.

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