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Q: 16, female.
tonight my friend had a little bonfire for her bday! and well this kid ive liked on and off for about 5 months was there. he's actually her neighbor. we've been pretty good friends for awhile and well now he has a a girlfriend of about 4 months. well me and him still flirt KIND OF, not as bad as before he had a girlfriend but then to me its flirting but to him or others it might not be. like me and a couple guys were throwin the football around and me and him (matt) were at one end, in the dark and we were kinda close and when they guys would throw it hard at me on purpose he would like jump in front to try and save me and he would always give me the ball because i wanted to throw it, but he would pass it off to me. but he wouldnt hand it to me he would like kind of hug me from behind and then give the ball to me. and then he was sayin i liked this guy that i madeout with but really i dont! long story..anyways he knew that i was getting angry with him but he knew that i would just punch him or run after him or like hit him in the stomache so he kept doing it and each time he would grab my hand and smile. also when we would sit by the fire he was sitting next to me and i looked at him and then he like took his hand and tapped it on my face/chin :] i dont know if you know what im talking bout! but then he took my purse and was holding it and was looking through it and saw i had my school pictures and he looked at it and then took one
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allrighty...a tad long, but you look like you need some help here, bad.
the guy has a girlfriend? i'd distance myself.
well, now i would...i was in a smiliar situation this past year and it nearly killed me.
We'd flirt non-stop, he kept telling me he was gonna break up with his girlfriend, then that he loved her oh-so-much. long story short, we made out, they stayed together, she found out, they broke up, she, and our entire grade HATED me. and i STILL didnt get the guy.
so just be careful...i know you are all happy and smily, but think of when you are at home...you are sad and you miss him. but he is most likely out with his girl. Plus, any guy that is doing all that when he has a girlfriend, shouldnt be in a relationship, and this will sound harsh since it is typed, not said, but why if you two got together wouldnt he do it to you?
think about that for a bit...
and i know you said you dont wanna talk to him, but you need to. you need to clear the air and figure things out, TRUST ME, having it all be clear, makes EVERYTHING much simpler. i promise you.
I hope everything works out, and i can tell you really like this guy, so i hope it goes well. if you need any more help, just message me on here okay?
xoxo
Auntie Em :)
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oh, thank you so much. i know its gonna be hard but i know i should try and distance myself from him...well thanks again!
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Hey! I'm Em, my friend Tori got one of these, so i decided to check it out, and got OBBESSED! i am always giving my friends advice, so please, ask away, and i will do my best to help!
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Website: Gender: Female Location: NOVA Occupation: Gate Gaurd Age: 14 Member Since: June 4, 2006 Answers: 197 Last Update: July 8, 2007 Visitors: 14507
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