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Q: How do I get over being as self concious as I am? It's like I refuse to sign up for all the homecoming events or dance at the pep rallies. I'm really not a shy person, just a little unsure of myself. I constantly tell myself to stop caring, but at times I feel like I look majorly stupid. I usually could act like I'm fearless, but I'm tired of acting. I really want to be secure with all of my actions!! Is there any piece of advice that I could replay in my head that would make me stop with the concern?
lola is right and no matter what you will always be you who cares what people think i know its hard not to i struggle with it alot aswell.One thing that helps me is if i get embarased like if i fall and i rip a whole in my but or something very embarassing laugh and say o look at my cute kitty underwear or uh huh ya i am such a dork.Its a way to embrace who you are and just be happy its not easy but when you finnally manage to you will be so happy.I know i am probably not much help but i hope i was!!

~nikki~
lalagurly

You were helpful,thanks!! Hehe kitty underwear!! That's so something I'd say!!

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