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Ilove to help people with their problems, I uusally am good with female problems, but SOME men problems I can handle, like if it's a medical problem for males... I really can't help you in that category, but if it's like relation ship problems and stuff like that then I would be one of the best people to ask!
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I don't know what to do and I can't cope so please help me if you can...

The truth is...nobody likes me. I'm not saying that in a 'feeling sorry for myself' way. It's fact. I work in an office where I overhear people bitching about me, where people lie about me and where they arrange nights out and I'm the only one not invited.

I can't do anything about it really because none of it can be proven and my Manager already believes the lies that have gone round about me because he's confronted me about them. There's nobody above him I can go to and I can't leave because I need the money and having looked around, I know I can't get the same anywhere else.

I can't seem to do anything right. Work is bad enough. I try SO hard and have done hours and hours of overtime, which I even refused to accept payment for because of personal reasons but I still mistakes. Constantly.

To make matters worse, I'm a complete failure in all other aspects of my life. I can't keep our home clean. I can't do a whole host of other things I should be able to do and the only things I ever really work at, I fail at and I'm so fed up of being such a loser and a failure that all I can seem to do is cry right now and not stop.

My boyfriend tries so hard to help me cope but I feel so miserable all the time and there's nothing anyone can do because the problem is with ME.

So, I guess my question is, how can I be happier? How can I stop feeling so bad about everything I seem to suck at?? And how do I find people who care about me, because other than my boyfriend, I don't think anyone does. (link)
you might want to change to a different work or you can ask them why they hate you so much? what did you ever do to make them hate you, bring a tape recorder to work and hide it in your pocket and turn it on when you hear them start up again


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Thanks but I can't ask them and I already said I can't change my job.




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