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13/f there is this guy we will call him "Fred". At a party I went to my friend found out that Fred liked me. My friend is really good friends with Fred, but I am not. My friend asked me if i would go out with Fred. I replyed that I would like to get to know him better before we went out. He felt rejected, and interperted it as me saying, get away from me you freak," but thats not how i meant it. I know he is going to ask me out, and i really do want to get to know him, who knows maybe i'll satrt liking him. He does not have a screename and doesn't pick up his cell. He is in one of my classes, and i don't want to talk to him in front of a lot of people, what can i do to get to know him better and convince him that I really do want to get to know him and i wasn' just saying that to get him away. Any tips aprreciated. Thanks

since he won't answer his phone or talk online, which would probably make you feel more comfortable, you just have to approach him in person. don't bring a friend along with you, as it can make guys feel uncomfortable. also, don't go up to him when he's with his friends and talk to him. if he's with his friends, but nothing is big is going on, ask him if he'd talk to you and pull him to the side and tell him you did NOT mean 'get away' of whatever and that you want to get to know him better. good luck =]




in reply to your feedback comment;
it's good that you're doing it online. as for what to say, i really don't know. bring up the party and ask what he thought when your friend told him your answer. after he tells you, tell him what you really meant. then go on about wanting to get to know him. and such. if you need anymore help, OMGFATFACEE is my aim screename =]

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(Rating: 5) ok, I just texted him and we decided to talk online tonight. I really want to tell him that i meant that I actaually do waht to get to know him, but I don't know how to put it. any suggestions?

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