My name is Brett, and I am a student living in Southlake. I am 16 and my car's name is azul. I am in band and totally love it. I am also in theatre...and its okay.
Gender: Female
Location: Southlake
Occupation: Student
Age: 16
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Member Since: January 3, 2005
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hey brett, my boyfriend and i have been going out for a little bit now and i like him so much. He would make me feel so special all the time, but lately he has become distant. sometimes i feel like he doesnt want me around or doesnt want to hang out, so i tend to back off a little bit. but then i think he thinks i dont talk to him enough now. i dont want to break up with him because like i said, i like him a lot. and im really afraid that he's going to break up with me. I dont know what to do.. please help (link)
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Try not to assume too much. He just might have a lot on his mind. Try talking to him about how you feel and about "other things." He might be able to help you. But really, try not to worry too much over it, no matter how much you like him, he is just a guy. Well, that is all I got that I havent already said to you.
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Brett,
I used to work at a camp with these three guys who were really good friends. When I showed up, they took me into their group and we were the best support staff ever! Then, when the next year came around, only one of the guys (let's call him "Lennon") and myself came back out to work. Another guy in our group (let's call him "Frodo") broke his wrist so he couldn't work, and that was understandable. But my other friend (let's call him "CO2") totally ditched us. Sometimes, I just want to write him a big hate letter full of mean things like, "You chose money over Jesus. You greedy SOB". How can I reconcile with my once friend turned burger flipper without getting angry at him? Would it help to have Lennon and Frodo with me? Please help me. Thanks.
Random guy named Zuko (link)
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Zuko,
Dont be angry, these things happen. You cant work at a certain place forever, people need different things to do. I have been going to a certain camp since I was 9, and along the years I have gotten a friends to go with me, and out of all those friends, one of my best friends did not like it. She is probably one of the only people that I know of that did not like this camp. It was very sad because I thought had a good time. I got kind of upset that she didnt like it because I love going, but I did not end our friendship over it. I dont think that God would not want you to be too mad over something as insignificant as who you hang out with at camp, just the fact that you work there has probably touched many peoples lives in more ways then you know. It is really sad that CO2 missed out on that. There is no need for you to be too mad at CO2 that you cant still be friends, yet you should definitally talk to him, and if you need Frodo and Lennon there, I bet they would understand, they seem like great guys. Well, I hope I helped.
*Brett*
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Dear Brett,
I get jealous when it comes to girls talking to my boy friend and stuff like that. Even when he talks about other girls i kinda feel bad. HELP!!! Is it b/c i have no trust?
Thanks,
Jealous girlfriend (link)
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Well, I think that the best thing you can do would just be chill out. I mean, trust him. Guys talk about other girls, I bet you have talked about other guys to him, it just happens. Try not to get so worked up about it.
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