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My best friend and I always go shopping at the mall together, but there`s been a problem lately. My friend always wants us to match & it's starting to get annoying because I want my own style. For example: We both were shopping together & saw the same purses. We ended up buying the same one`s but in different colors, and now my friend wants to make a habit of this and buy matching purses for every season like a fall purse, winter purse, etc. This friend & I went to the mall this past Sunday [ Yesterday ] and she saw what I had picked out to buy, it was like a tshirt and a pair of jeans, and then she picked out the same one`s. She DID ask if I was okay with her buying the same thing`s as me and since I was on the spot, I said yes. Well now I don`t really want to have the same thing`s as my friend, because I want to be an individual, not a twin!! I`m not sure what I should do or say, because I would feed bad asking my friend to take back her purchases and I don`t want to take back mine. So what I`m asking, is, what should I do to stop the matching in the future? Please Help!!

If you politely say, no, sorry, i would prefer if we didn't match our clothes, she would probably understand, Tell her that you want your own style, and she doesn't have to return her purchases already and neithor do you, put the tee-shir on with different jeans, alter it somehow to make it your own, and try not to wear it on the same day. If she's really your friend, she'll understand. If she doesn't, then find a new shopping buddy :)

Hope i was of some help!

-DD

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