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well theres this boy i like and my best friend knew him before me but never talked to him or anything. she said he was ugly but after i said he was cute and that i liked him she said it to and she starts flirting with him and kissin him on the cheek when im standing right there. He wants us to blow him but take turns. Have one of us blow him while the other one makes out with him then switch. my {best} friend is all like "ya lets do it sexy" and stuff like that and im soo freakin mad cuz she knew i liked him alot!! i told her about this and she just said that im makin a big deal out of nothing and that hes mine. what do you guys think am i overreacting or should i be mad? i mean would you want your best friend making out and givin bj's to the boy you like? (link)
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Frankly both your best friend and the guy you like sound not only like complete imbeciles bt as though they couldn't give a crap about your feelings. I'm going to hazard a guess at the three of you being somewhere around the 15 yrs mark (right/wrong?) due to the fact this boy is trying to prove himself to be some kind of "pimp" and they fact that neither one of you girls seems to balk at the idea of being the arrogant little boy's sexual object.
Yes you should be very mad at having him assume you will do something entirely for his pleasure that I'm afraid, once he has spread the tale around all his mates (and he will), will do nothing for you except land you with a reputation that will, however unfairly, put a lot of decent guys off you for years to come. He knows full well that you two girls are fighting over him and he's just exploiting the situation. You may like him but he doesn't care about you and clearly does not plan on having any kind of relationship with you.
Your best friend cuts a bit of a pitiful figure in that she's clearly hugely insecure. Not only does she have to go after a guy you like to prove she can beat you but she is also willing to do or at least say she'll do anything this cretin suggests to prove what a fun girl she is. Leave them to it.
Sorry this is so long and harsh but I've known to many girls walk into this kind of situation and regret it for years. He's an idiot who thinks he can get whatever he wants from whoever he wants- do everyone a favour and don't prove him right.
**EDIT**- That sounds like a brilliant plan. Trust me, you can do better.
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soo i shouldnt blow him or even try to get with him? just be friends with him and wait for a decent guy who wont flirt with my friend?
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