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well i really like these 2 guys but the one guy broke up with me and his life is really messed up but hes willing to take me back and the other guy is soo nice and sweet but i like the other guy more. im a 13 year old female.
Hello there! I'm PurplePudgyPenguin and I'll be your AG today! Hm... I have to think of something amusing to get you into high spirits. Hm... Amusing.. amusing...? *Cough, cough* Ick... I'm eating watermellon and I choked on a seed. It was an evil seed, but I spit it on the floor and my kitty ate it. Good kitty! Yay! I did it. And yep, that really did happen *Nods*.
Down to business! Okay, I can think of a few things to help you out. These are suggestions! It doesn't mean you pick one and think it'll magically work like a fortune cookie. Doesn't happen that way. Only you can decide what to do. These are just to help the gears in your brain work along and get you through it. Much like a cross-stitch sewing thing. Someone can help you out, but its up to you to finish your masterpiece up.
1) Don't date the guy who's got a rough life just for pity. There's no love there, just well... pity. It won't last anyways.
2) The second guy sounds so sweet. But get to know him better. Take your time with studying him. Hang out with him at school. If he's still sweet and nice, go for him.
3) Same as B. If the other boy you broke up with is having a messed up life, then hang out around him. If he's getting distasteful, or you just can't take it anymore, don't go for him. But you said you liked him better, so you may end up staying with him.
4) Make a chart. List things you look for in a guy. Pair the two up together. See which one is more appealing to you. Don't make it into a contest and just go "yep, he wins". You need to be HONEST with yourself. If not, you may as well flip a coin.
5) What do you know? Flip a coin! If you just can't decide, flip a coin. Date one guy for two weeks, tell the other you may still be interested in him to make sure he doesn't go off with another girl. I suggest dating the nice guy first. Get to know each boy. Whichever one you feel more comfortable with, take him.
I know this probably doesn't help much, and you're probably thinking I'm psychotic (random person: flip a coin?!?! Who comes up with that? / ppp: aw. =( ), but I really do hope I helped in some way shape or form. If not, there are plenty of other advice givers who would be more than happy to help you out. Take care!!
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