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Q: 15 year old female.
I`m sure you all get alot of questions like this and I`m sorry but I need help =)
This is going to be my first year of highschool, freshmen. I`m scared out of my mind. One of my best friends whom I`v gone to school with for 9 years is going to a different school. Will I lose her friendship ? My sister just graduated from taht school and she was known as a slut, and to cheat on her boyfriends.. am I going to have that same stuff said about me because I`m her sister ? I`m so scared I`m going to get lost, 3 floors and I can`t make it to the school tour (I`ll be in New York City on vacation). How easy is it to get lost ? I`m in a super high science class, and I`m not worried about doing bad in the class, I`m worried about how there will be alot of higher classmen in the class. Should I be worried about higher classmates ?Basicly, anything you can tell me about highschool will help me,.. postive and negative information would help me.
♥ the scared freshmen.
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well, i'll give you the bad news about high school first. in high school, it is less likely that someone is going to come up to you and just let you into their group and tell you to come join them. i mean, unless it's a guy that's into you or something. but, i mean like groups, you know? you have to walk up to them and make friends with them. that's the positive side lol. that you an do something about it. it's not really that bad. all i'm saying is that you have to talk to people and stuff
about your sister- people might just think. oh that's her sister. but, i don't think that they will judge you to the point that they will think you are her. if you are not like her, you're personality will shine through and people will accept you and love you for who you are
getting lost- don't worry. i felt the same way. but, you find your way. you get use to it and eventually you find everything okay. don't worry about that because the teachers will probably not be super strict about being a little late to class the first couple of weeks because they understand that you are getting use to the place and the rooms
science class- i think that is awsome and don't worry about the people in your class. i think that it is a good thing to becone friends with the upper classmen because because they are good to have there. they will protect you and stuff. but, don't get me wrong. the upperclassmen aren't bullies or anything, but if you are scared of getting bullied or somethingm, that will make you feel better
i hope i helped
*muaz*
xoxo
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thank you. highschool is getting closer & im getting scared, but you helped make it better.. thanks alot
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bio
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I started this column when I was 15 years old, so you'll notice that the advice has gotten better and better. I've always been interested in counseling and I started this column to gain experience. But, I found a lot more than that. I found a support system of caring and loving people. I received a degree in child development and currently working towards becoming a school psychologist. So, I hope you can feel confident in trusting me with your questions. This is more than just a fun site for me. I look back on my own questions from years ago, and I laugh when I read about my problems at 16. I've really come a long way! I'm relatively young, but I've had several experiences in life that have aided me in helping others. I hope to use those experiences for the greater good and help others who are not in their ideal situation!
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E-mail: Gender: Female Age: 26 Member Since: February 1, 2006 Answers: 269 Last Update: May 12, 2018 Visitors: 20678
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