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Since getting married, my husband and I make love around twice a week but i have a secret. I can't enjoy it cos it hurts, like, a LOT. Weve tried lubes and i always get turned on so its not cos of that but i dont know what to do. Its ruining our sex life and thats tough cos were trying for a baby.

Please can someone help us? Im so worried about this. I just want it to feel good but it hurts so much that it makes me sore for days afterwards. Please, any advice for us! (link)
i would go to the doctor. also talk to your husband about it, since you guys are married i hope you feel close enough to eachother to speak to eachother about things like that. maybe he is just well endowed and youre vagina just needs getting used to it. after you do it wait until it stops hurting than maybe try again, you shouldnt keep having sex if it still hurts because you could be damaging yourself and that would be bad.


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Thanks. I have checked up a little on this and I don't think any damage is being caused but I appreciate the warning. Thankfully, we have talked about it but it's not solved the problems so we will have to consider this further.




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