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Hey all! you're all welcome to ask me anything from relationships to your crashing modems or computers, i'll try to answer them as well as i can but please bear in mind that i do like my techology but i'm no subsitute for the real thing ok? same thing applies to relationships and anything else that you wish to ask me =]
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I was just wondering...how can you tell if your attracted to someone of the same sex? Like...if i look at a girl, somtimes i'll think, "oh, she's pretty" and if i look at a guy i'll think "oh he's cute." (by the way, i'm a girl) But, anyway, like, somtimes i feel attracted to guys, and i really want to get to know them, but then again, somtimes i look at some of my friends who are girls, and i just kinda..you know, wonder....heh, that sounds weird. But yeah, so i was wondering, how do you tell if your bi or gay or stuff like that.

By the way, i'm christian, so my religon is totally against things like that....so thats why i havn't talked to anyone, and i cant... (link)
you can try an annoymous councelling service for teens, you can't really have someone else tell you what it's like to be bi or gay etc, it's up to you to know like you just have to think and reflect deeply and try talking to someone you trust or if you really can't bring yourself to do that try the councelling service as mentioned before. gay and bi people are just normal people like you or i and there is nothing to be ashamed of if you do come to the conclusion that you are gay or bi etc. just think of it this way everyone regardless of their religion or sexuality are just normal humans we are all humans we all have feelings and wants and needs we all have goals and asperations so what is so different about gay or bi people? gay and bi people also have human rights and right now people are activly trying to get everyone else to realise that gay and bi people are just like themselves. there's nothing different between them and us because we are all humans so i don't see why you should be ashamed of being gay or bi or indeed even having gay or bi friends or aquientences. hope that helped! =]


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