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my boyfriend wants to fight with a relative of mine who has a crush on me....REAL CRUSH ON ME..they said that they will have a "till death" fight and i dont know how to stop them...my boyfriend and that guy are really stubbonrn...they may REALLY get one another KILLED...i just need a way to stop them...i am almost 15 and my realtive is 15 and half and my boyfriend is turning 17,thank you (link)
I love the smell of excess testosterone in the morning.

For a start don't worry abuot them "fighting to the death" they sound like hyped up little boys trying to prove themselves to me and I'm sure it won't get far past a few punches and insults before they can go home all pleased with themselves about what big tough men they are.

Even so it's worth asking them what exactly they're hoping to achieve by this as whatever the outcome you will still love your boyfriend and still not be with this relative. Tell them both that you do not want them to do this and if they have any consideration for your feelings they won't. If they still go ahead walk away and have no part of it or if you think it will get really out of hand inform their fathers or even the police, or at least make it clear to them that you are prepared to.

Either way this really has very little to do with you and is more about two little teenage boys trying to mark their territory so don't waste energy feeling bad about it.

If all else fails, let them beat the shit out of each other and refuse to give either one any sympathy or praise for it. It'll blow over quicker than you think


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thanks guyz..because of only GOD & YOU ma prob was solved...thank you allllllll!!!




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