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I am 48 years old (yes that's old compared to some of you).


I have worked in nursing and/or healthcare management positions for 24 years. Primarily OB, Neonatal, Mental Health, Occupational Health and Geriatrics. In Jan 2008 I started my own business to board horses and do equine/human education. I am also a certified dog trainer.


I've been around the block so to speak and seem to be always helping others. I've been told that the reason people seek me out for advice is that I am approachable and caring. But on the same token even though I consider the person's feelings. I tell it like I see it. I've dealt with people in trouble with the law, dysfunctional families such as those with abuse & marriage problems. Not to mention problems with employees and employers.


I don't ever claim to know it all, and always keep an open mind.

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Hello! I have liked this one guy for about 5 or 6 months! I broke up with him about 5 or 6 months ago! I really Love him Soo much! But we got in a fight! & Now we don`t talk anymore , and it took him a while to get over me , I am not sure if he is over me , I sure think he is , So many people thought we were perfect for eachother , But we just had to brake up over this stupid thing , I need help what do i do? Should i talk to him or wait for him to talk to me?? please help! Thanks so much!

ps. Great Advice! ♥

If the two of you fought a lot, or at least over 30% of the time you were together, It's probably best not to talk to him and try to move on.

There is usually a good reason for ending a relationship but sometimes we forget how serious that was after several months--and can only see the good things about the person. When really the bad outweigh the good.

If you got along most of the time and you really miss everything about him, why not call? If he tells you he doesn't want to see you, you will have no choice to accept that, but at least you won't be hanging by a thread forever. If he wants to see you, take things slow, just like you are starting over and try to put the past behind you.

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(Rating: 5) i need more help with it tho.. i will ask you another question about it , thanks!
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