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So sorry if this is long!!!
ohkay so i have a really close friend that likes me. we'll call him Bob. Bob and i are really close friends i tell him everything and when i talk to him it feels like everytihng at that moment is perfect. he's almost everything i want in a guy. i mean hes funny and really cares about me etc... the only thing is that i dont feel a physical attraction to Bob. in a relationship i think that you should be physically attracted to someone too its not like its a major deal but to me it matters.
theres also the fact that if we were to go out i wouldn't see him all that often. he goes to a different school and both of us are usually pretty busy on the weekends. (i got to my dads every other weekend which is an hour away) and on the other weekends i spend time with friends.
i mean i could always go out with him just for the summer but he really really means alot to me and i wouldnt ever want to hurt him. but i also dont want an "internet boyfriend".
so what should i do? do i just stay friends with him or should i go out with him? or what if we were "friends with benefits"?
help me i'm so confused!
Kait♥ (link)
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hey.
Physical attraction does factor into a relationship, but it isn't that much of a big deal. However, there should be at least a little bit of physical attraction in my opinion, but if you really care about him, then thats all that matters.
If you went out with him, it'd be a good thing that you guys don't see eachother alll the time, because then you have a chance to miss him if you know what i mean. because if you see him all the time, you'll most likely get sick of him right?
In my opinion, i think you two should go out. If you really care about him and know that he feels the same, then you guys deserve to be in a relationship that doesn't just require friendship. Maybe you can hang out with him in a group with your friends, that way your not ditching your friends, and your able to see him. He could even bring some of his friends, i mean it is nice to meet new people =]. Talk to your friends about it, and see if they'd like the idea of hanging out in a big group like that for a change. Sometimes you and him could spend some time alone, and sometimes you and your friends can hang out like you normally would, but you can also do the group thing. Plus there is always the phone and computer you can use when you guys aren't together.
hope everything works out =]
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