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Q: This is a long one.. So i've beeng going out with my boyfriend for about 4 months, but sometimes Im not sure if i really love him or not. Like sometimes when we hang out I just get this really good feeling like im totally in love with him. But then other times I get kind of annoyed of just little things that he does. And i also sometimes feel like he doesnt really "speak my language" if that makes sense. Like I feel like there's this wall between us where i can't completely tell him whats on my mind. A couple weeks before I went out with him I had just broken up with my previous boyfriend of about 11 months. Im starting to think that I just got sucked into my current boyfriend because I had sex with him pretty soon, so I felt like I was obligated to stay with him. But now I just can't decide if that was the right choice. I'm too afraid to break up with him though because he would be SO heartbroken and I'm also afraid i would totally regret it afterward! The other thing is that I've met a few realy cool guys lately, one in particular who is going to be a freshman in college. We met at a party and were both totally drunk but he keeps texting me wanting to hang out and stuff. We havent yet hung out but i really hope to before he has to leave for college, because hes a totally cool guy and not to mention quite attractive. But I also keep holding back because I still totally love my boyfriend. I seriously dont know what to do right now. This whole situation has elevated into a confusing mess and I cant make a decision. Please help me figure out what the right thing to do is! Thankkk you :) -age 15
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Tough situation but i cant say ive never gone through that! the first thing i want to say is do what you think is best for you. I just recently discovered that everyone should do what is going to make them happy. i mean ya your boyfriend would be completly heartbroken. but is it worth it to you to stay in a relationship your so unsure of? no. I think your afraid you'll regret it because you do care about him and your afraid of losing him. but you dont want him as your boyfriend? because your intrested in other people now? im guessing. But if you really love your boyfriend. and want to be with him. your going to have to be honest with him and tell him your feelings. just have a talk about things that bug you. like the "language" thing. maybe you can teach him how to understand your "language" ...
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thanks a ton that helps a lot :)
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HI. My names kylie. && i will turn 16 on July 25. I go to barrington High. && i completley love it. I love giving advice to anyone and everyone. No matter what it is i just feel right answering peoples questions.
If you need advice fast you can always IM me. I'm always online. Even if i'm not there i'm signed on!
Anythiing you want to ask. ?
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Gender: Female Location: Barrington IL Age: 16 AIM: Member Since: July 19, 2006 Answers: 30 Last Update: August 11, 2006 Visitors: 3248
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