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Q: ok i am going to be a freshman and im not even going to try and hide it. i am very freaked out. my older sister says its no biggie but seriously i am a very sesitive person and i cant really handle getting teased or picked on without turning red or becoming insecure about whatever whoever happened to tease me about. and i am going to get lost (we dont get our scheds until the first day).
so does anyone have any advice about what to do on the first day or what NOT to do on the first day? advice with bullies, teachers, or red facedness will be greatly appreciated and rated.
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on my first day of high school i almost cried. i was SO freaked out. then when i got there, i didn't know what i was crying about. i made friends with the upperclassmen. and i'm telling you, that's the best thing you could do. it's like a tradition that the upperclassmen always try to scare the freshman. but, it doesn't go beyond that. most bullies just have insecurities about themselves. but, seniors have so much more things to worry about than to bully the freshman. i mean, think about it, they have colleage applications and worries about getting into colleage. and every other class has a lot of hard work also in their classes. everyone in high school is very busy, and most of the time, cliques have either already been formed, or form right when you start and everyone is just in their own world and stuff. i noticed that. i was afraid of getting stuffied in a locker or something like that but when people passed by me they were either talking to someone or studying. i know that you've heard "it's no big deal" but it really isn't. everyone is into their own thing
i hope i helped
*muaz*
xoxo
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thank you. that makes a lot of sense.
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bio
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I started this column when I was 15 years old, so you'll notice that the advice has gotten better and better. I've always been interested in counseling and I started this column to gain experience. But, I found a lot more than that. I found a support system of caring and loving people. I received a degree in child development and currently working towards becoming a school psychologist. So, I hope you can feel confident in trusting me with your questions. This is more than just a fun site for me. I look back on my own questions from years ago, and I laugh when I read about my problems at 16. I've really come a long way! I'm relatively young, but I've had several experiences in life that have aided me in helping others. I hope to use those experiences for the greater good and help others who are not in their ideal situation!
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E-mail: Gender: Female Age: 26 Member Since: February 1, 2006 Answers: 269 Last Update: May 12, 2018 Visitors: 20699
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