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I'm 14.
To make a really long story shorter, my bff...Jane. Has an abusive boyfriend, also, she's only 13, which makes it even more weird. She's going out with a 15 year old.
And she says I'm the only one she told.
She says he doesn't like beat her up, he just hits her a lot..
I never noticed, but recently she's been wearing long sleeves. Because she's actually BRUISED.
But, Jane says she really has it under control, and doesn't want to break up with him because she apparently realllly likes him. And she says he likes her, but..
I said if I were her I would break up with him.
Then she said something like that I didn't know what love was, so I couldn't say that.
I've never really been in this kind of situation before.
Do I tell an adult?
If you were me..what would you...do?
ugh, I'm kind of confused.
And I want to help my friend.
Oh man. This guy, has so serious issues, and your friend Jane seems like she needs to get help. That is not love and don't ever think that. You need to tell somebody, if this guy is hitting her on a regular basis think about what he is capable of when she gets mad and wants to fight back. It's a terrible situation I know, your friend might be upset at first, but it is for the best you tell an adult. It's up to you about which adult you choose, maybe your mom, or a school counsiler. I wish you the best of luck! I hope I helped at all. I love feedback good and bad.
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Molly
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