Hey all! you're all welcome to ask me anything from relationships to your crashing modems or computers, i'll try to answer them as well as i can but please bear in mind that i do like my techology but i'm no subsitute for the real thing ok? same thing applies to relationships and anything else that you wish to ask me =]
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I had been into a net relationship with a boy from Aus for the past 4 years. We never heard each others voice or ever saw each other (except thru the net pics we shared).Four years was a long time to me and I could not stand the pain of being away from my loved one for so long.I desperately loved him.There was a time when he took me for granted and stopped being in touch.But then he was sorry and came back.And he really changed. But loving a boy on the net so desperately and knowing that I would not be able to see him for the next few years was a real pain and so I backed off from the relationship. He asked for a reason and I gave it to him. His answer was something like..."Sweetheart, Thank you for replying back and wish you all the success for the future. I like to walk in the rain cuz no one can see me crying... Good Bye. Yours__Michael"
It was a pain to me too but I don't think he thinks so. Its so hurting. I've been a failure in relationships even in the past and I don't feel like going for a relationship ever again.But deep down I secretly long for a person to love me.Though I have a lot of really good friends, I long for someone who'll call me his own.I know I am loved and wanted but the feeling remains.I try to distact myself by engaging myself in activities but nothing helps.And I can just not stop crying and like to stay all alone. Please help me!! (link)
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maybe he took your answer to backing down on your relationship as you wanting to break it off with him? how about meeting someone new? you could go out with a few good friends to look for a new guy? i know this sounds absolutely insensitive right now but it's not really finding someone but to enjoy your friend's company and to enjoy yourself again. i'm sure you won't end up alone but for the time being it sounds like you need several shoulders to cry on and time to heal. Cry all you want and all you need; crying is actually very therephutic. right now it may seem as though the whole world is just crumbing around you but be assured it isn't you just need someone to cry on who would understand the situation and who understands you. in time you'll heal and i'm very sure that you'll find someone. i heard this once and i find it is quite true it says: everyone has the exact love life they want. if you want someone to love you you go and find it! because when you go and find it it'll find you right back =] hope you feel better soon and good luck!
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