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14|Female...For about two years ever since I found out my dad cheated on my mom...my life has been completely different, i use to feel really confident about my body but now i dont, i feel over weight and ugly (even though im 89lbs)I also have really bad trust issues now..I dont want to be like this anymore I want the old me back, My mom says the best way is for me to talk to someone about it but I cant talk to her because I know that it will upset her about the dad thing and I cant talk to my older sister because she will think im just going through some teenage stage...my mom suggested I see a therapist but i dont know if I want to or not because it just seems weird telling a stranger my feelings...and also I know they cost alot of money so I dont want to just waste money if I am going through a teenage stage but I dont think it is just a teenage stage...Im just really scared I am going to do something crazy if I dont tell people how I feel. So my question is...should I see a therapist or not?
Alright. I had a similar issue. It's important that you feel good about yourself. 89lbs is most deffiantly not overweight. I'm sure you are a beautiful person, never feel bad about yourself. When you look in the mirror always think of one postive thing about yourself. Even if your in a rush you need to pick out one thing you love about yourself. I talked to a therapist when I was going through similar problems. I really liked talking to her because she never was going to tell anybody. She didn't know my family, or my friends, she didn't no anything about me, and most importantly to me she never judged me. It's a really nice thing to have somebody to talk about things and all they do is listen and sometimes they talk back and help you through things. You can't battle this alone. Sometimes through your school they can get you a therapist for free. Which is very nice. That is what I did. The prices vary depending on the therapist. But there is opionions to getting a free or very inexpensive therapist. And there quality won't be any less or anything. They will treat you very nicely. It's important you get through this. It's not a stage. So don't ever think that. If you have any questions or comments please please please write me. I really like your question because I can relate to it. If you want to write to me, I can help you also. I'm no therapist but I will do my best. Good Luck. I love feedback good and bad. My email is mollysie@yahoo.com. Please write me if you have any questions like I said. Ok I could go on forever!
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thanks for being so understanding...my email is hazeleyeszxo@yahoo.com
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