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14|Female...For about two years ever since I found out my dad cheated on my mom...my life has been completely different, i use to feel really confident about my body but now i dont, i feel over weight and ugly (even though im 89lbs)I also have really bad trust issues now..I dont want to be like this anymore I want the old me back, My mom says the best way is for me to talk to someone about it but I cant talk to her because I know that it will upset her about the dad thing and I cant talk to my older sister because she will think im just going through some teenage stage...my mom suggested I see a therapist but i dont know if I want to or not because it just seems weird telling a stranger my feelings...and also I know they cost alot of money so I dont want to just waste money if I am going through a teenage stage but I dont think it is just a teenage stage...Im just really scared I am going to do something crazy if I dont tell people how I feel. So my question is...should I see a therapist or not? (link)
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Wow screw a tharapist. You need serious help. Your afraid your mom will be upset so your just going to let your dad continue to cheat on her? That's cold. It will be better if you tell your mother rather then let her live a lie. Say that you got married and had a child and they found out your husband was cheating on you and wouldn't tell you I don't think you'd like that. I believe that you are simply feeling guilt and anger. If you tell your mom it would help.
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my mom knows my dad cheated...and he stopped cheating
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