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I've been going out with my boyfriend for over a month. And for the past three weeks, it has been great. We both get on really well and we both have been enjoying eachother's company. But now I feel like he doesn't want to make the effort. Nearly half the time I have to get in touch with him first. He comments other girls on a website called bebo instead of me. I dont want to sound obsessive so I have left this minor detail out from the conovsations i have with him. Many of my friend's say he doesn't realise he's doing it but I dont know. It feels like he doesn't like me as much as he used to. He always wanted to see me everyother day and now its reduced to a week where he hasnt mentioned seeing me at all. A while ago, It felt like he was ashamed of me and so I asked him, and he came back with positive comments saying he's not. I want us to stay in a relationship because I really like him. But I don't how to overcome these insercurities? I've spoken to several of my close friends and they said it's all natural to feel this way. Am I getting too attached to him? Is this the end of our relationship? (link)
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being attached to another person is never a time where one can feel totally secure you can only trust and have enough believe in your boyfriend. love wasnever secure that's probably why it requires so much work. no i don't think it's the end of your relationship, and yes it is natural to feel this way. if it's bugging you to insanity, have a talk with your boyfriend and make sure he knows you are dead serious about this issue. hope this helps! and my best wishes for you =]
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