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okay..so there's this guy that i've sorta always liked..and we dated at this beginning of this year but we broke up after like two weeks..and he told me a few days ago that he likes me and he wants me to ask him out or something cause he'll have more respect for me..anyways i really dont wanna get hurt like i did last time and i want something that's going to last..and he says that he's tired of being single and he wants a relationship..but i dont know if i should believe him or not. so what do you think i should do?
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he wants you to ask him out because he'll have more respoect for you that way? Sounds like a bit of a muppet. If he wants a relationship with you why hasn't he got his act together and asked you out? If on the other hand he just wants any old "relationship" it's most likely you're ust quite convenient and asking him out rather than the other way around makes it more convenient still, something for him to just fall in to and, yes, probably fall out of again just as quickly as before. Sorry.
Why did you break up before? Just because he was flaky or some bigger reason? Either way, has anything changed?
I know it's the answer everyone gives but if you really think it's worth a shot ya need to talk talk talk. If he or you can't talk properly and openly about this then I really wouldn't bother getting in to this again because you will get your heart bruised. Again. As the ol' saying goes "Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me".
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thanks..yeah, i think i'll talk to him about it
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