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OK, well, my two best friends will call me out if they think I'm "flirting" with a guy. It doesn't even matter what guy, they will just give me a look and act all mad. They don't even like the guy, since they both have boyfriends. But the problem is that our ideas of flirting are WAY different. Like, they think that striking a conversation up with an ex or playing soccer with a good guy friend is flirting, but I say not really. I need help! I need to know what to do? Should I laugh it off, or just not talk to my guy friends?
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I was about to say the smae as the advicenator below and suggest your friends had a little touch of the green-eyed monster. For a start talking to a guy does not consitute flirting, it's constitutes being a rational, interesting person who has things to say to all kinds of people and even if you flirted with every guy in the land, you're single, why should they care or disapprove?
If they're in relationships the most likely explanation is they envy you lots of male attention that they don't or can't get. Perhaps they even feel ignored by these guys when you're around. Even so this is really not your problem but if they're bugging you you need to ask them what exactly their problem is with you talking to and/or flirting with guys.
The laughing it off policy is best and hopefully they'll get over it one way or another.
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