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I am really confused what to do. Long time ago when I was 13, I met a guy who had a crush on me. It developed until I felt the same way. that guy was 3 years older than me and he felt I was too young so he decided not to pursue anything beyond friends.
Now I am 19. I've moved on with the other though it really hurt because i love him so much until now. I have accepted the facts that we are not meant to be. I met this awesome guy. He really loves me more than anything else in the world. Because of this love from him, I want to be with him because i know he will make me happy. So, I am with him right now. Not long ago, the guy I met 6 years ago and I started chatting online. then, he told me that he loves me and he is willing to wait for me. I am in overseas studying so we only communicate through email/chatting. I know i love him more than the guy I am with right now. But I know for sure that the guy I am with right now loves me more than the guy i met 6 years ago. What should I do? Should I stay with the guy I am with right now? or should I go with the guy I've been waiting for all my teenage years? I'm not even sure if the guy i met 6 years ago is serious or just playing around. I dont want to get hurt from him anymore because it's so hard to move on. I have never loved anyone as much as I love him. please help.
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I say you continue your relationship with your Current guy.
Why?
First, I believe that long distance relationships rarely work.
Second, you and the guy you met 6 years ago don't REALLY know each other--the two of you have of course changed a lot through the years. And to be able to make a long distance realtionship work, you need to have a lot of knowledge about each other, full Trust, and the willingness to make the relationship work. If one of these is lacking, then the relationship is not worth it.
Third, you need to use your mind instead of your heart from time to time.
Don't be so selfish.
Because there's this other guy who loves you, too--the one you are with right now.
Now, who would you choose-- the guy you're pretty much sure of Or the guy you don't even know that much?
Be wise in your decision.
Hope I helped you a lil' bit.
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