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My friend is going to kill herself next Friday.

She seems happy about it.

I've tried to change her mind, but that didn't work.

She doesn't eat, she's an insomniac, and she is very stressed.

She's been to shrinks but she says that they were a waste of her time.

She hates her parents because she can never talk to them, I guess.

I don't know what to do.

Keep her busy so that she won't kill herself like invite her somewhere or something. Or you can find out what's exactly the problem and fix it. Also, do what the other people said.

But in my point of view, which may not be what you want to hear, is that you let her. You want her here for your own selfish reasons. You obviously don't want her to do as she wishes. Let her get out of her misery.

Plus, it REALLY sounds like she just wants attention. So don't give it to her. Or maybe you should and she'll just keep saying how she'll kill herself which she probably won't in the end.

Believe me, the ones who truly want to kill themselves don't tell other people. Well that's usually true 90% of the time..

Y'know, death is an odd thing so..
I don't know. Sorry.

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(Rating: 5) thanks. i think i will let her. she lies sometimes and her lies are for attention. to tell you the truth, i dont really care if she leaves. we had a big fight a month ago and we're not as close as we used to be. whatever makes her happy.


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