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kay me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 months now..we have been talking about gettin a place of our own and really settle down with eachother..the thing is he wants me to be more AGGRESSIVE but i dont know how because im a soft person that gets hurt very easily and i am a big baby..he also wants me to WOMAN up but i dont know how or what he means by that...and i need help on how i can do these things so we can work out and last..so if u could please help me out..were together everyday..stay at eachothers houses..in love..families want us to be together..just this little bump keeping us alittle apart..ill rate high! (link)
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Hey Hun,
Alright sounds pretty cool moving in with your boyfriend, actually being together not having to worry about parents wanting yall home at a certain time because then yall would always be together correct? Well thing is what exactly is meant by aggressive and women up? In my own mind if a boy says that it would probably be meant as nothing bad just he probably meant this as like your too nice of a person. Idk what exactly he meant it as like too nice of a person to him whitch I doubt that but maybe he see's other people like being rude to you or something an your just really sweet and end up giving into them. Or maybe he is meaning it as in your too sweet to him. And like I know like sometimes with my bf he ends up just randomly arguing haha an im like wayy to sweet an give into him, soo maybe he meant it like that? Idk but just keep doing what your doing I mean he cant change the way you act I know it sounds crazy but just be you an tell him to exsplain what bothers him so you can like figure out what is actually making you need a change in your actions or whatever! Anyway hope I helped!!
-StephAnie-
*If ya need anymore advice,
IM me on aol at OHiLOVETRAViS*
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