Hello, all! I haven't had much life experience compared to some people, but I can give you my view of things, and I'll do my best to give an honest opinion. Ask me anything and I'll answer as best I can!
Myself, I'm a Nursing Assistant finishing up some classes before I start working. My interests include cooking, martial arts, music, video games, gardening, acting, reading, and paintball. My girlfriend is slowly pulling me into politics, but she's drawing me in none the less. =P I love her so much!
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Location: WA, USA
Occupation: Nursing Assistant
Age: 23
Member Since: May 27, 2006
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omg i hate myself sooo much....i'm not supposed to miss my ex and stuff. i'm not supposed to cry over him when i'm going out with my bf joe. god i'm soooo stupid and i shouldn't cry over schuyler i'm like joe a lot i'm a bitch and a whore i don't know what i should do. (link)
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First off, (and don't get pissed at me for this) putting yourself down when you already are feeling down never got anyone anywhere. I say things to myself a lot like "I hate myself" or "why do I do such stupid things?" and "I'm a terrible boyfriend" but it never helps, it just makes things worse.
You're not a whore, and you're not a bitch. Even though I don't know you, I can say that honestly. It looks like you jumped into a new relationship to cover the pain of a pervious one. You don't seem like you're over your old bf, and that's ok. It's normal for your heart to take a while to heal.
My advice would be to suspend the relationship you have at the moment for a little while. Not a break up, just take a bit of time to think things over and to heal. These things never go away by drowning them in a new love, they just have to "dry up" on their own. Once you're feeling better, then you'll want to get involved more in your relationship with this Joe guy. ^_~
Also, let your bf know what is happening. If he's an understanding person, he'll help and support you the best he can. Good luck! ^_^
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thanx for all the advice you gave me and stuff and i really appreciate it. you are like the first guy that has givin me. i mean i miss my ex and stuff but i don't want to leave joe because my ex is with someone i thought was my friend but was only using me to get him from me. sooo thank you for all ur advice if you want i would like to stay in contact with you just in case i have anymore conflicts with guys which i have a lot of questions but i got to go. Love Arianna
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