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Hey i am 16 years old and i had this boyfriend and we were getting pretty serious but i would break up with him like everyday cause he would just do stupid stuff or ignore me sometimes in the hallways at skool...well he started to wanna do sexual stuff to eachother and he wanted to have sex and i felt so pressured so one day i ended up letting him finger me, and he just wanted more so i had a long talk with him telling him that i wanted to wait till marrige for sex..and 2 days later he broke up with me i was devistated and now he has been nothing but rude to me and the other night we were fighting and he had the nerve to ask me to wait for him over the summer after telling me that he hated me,he says that he needs time to matture and learn how to be a better b/f. well we got in another fight cause i found out he was trying to get close to some girl who is a well...whore and he got all mad and told me to forget waiting on him and i wouldn't let that happen.so he told me that i had all summer to find someone else and if not then we were gonna spend h.s together? i dont know what to think or what he wants? will you please help me i am so confused. did he just want sex? or does he really need to learn how to be matture? do i wait till summer is over and skool starts again for him? we havn't talked in over a week though...=( (link)
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Is he just after sex? Yes. Any guy that treats you like that for not giving in to him wants only one thing. Does he need to learn to be mature? Definately. He thinks that sex and manipulation is the way to get to a girl's heart. Yeah right.
Considering he went after some other girl who you have promptly labled as a "whore," I would say that he's not going to be waiting for you over the summer, so why should you wait for him? There are a lot better guys out there. If you're having trouble finding a mature guy that can treat you right, why bother having a bf right now? Guys your age aren't very mature in the first place, though they ALL think that they are. Wait a year or so and you might find a more mature guy.
If this sounded sarcastic, I'm sorry... Guys that just want a girl for sex sicken me. Hope I was of some help!
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