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Q: hey... well my boyfriend jordan and i have been going out for a month now. but my problem is that he invited me to go to the community pool with his family tomorrow. but, i don`t want to go. i am veerrryyy self-concious when my stomach is showing, because i`m quite chubby for my age. i don`t want to lie to him, but i also don`t want to be in a bathing suit around other people. so, i`m scared to go because i`m afraid he`ll be embarassed to be seen with me. what should i do??

Tankini
they are perfect
i am chubby andhate swim suits, also, i have terrible backne, and hate my back
you can tell him you arent comfortable
or wear bottoms and a tank top
there are plenty of ways to hide the tummy :)

hope i helped! and have fun! your boyfriend is with you because he likes YOU :)

thanks

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Hey! I'm Em, my friend Tori got one of these, so i decided to check it out, and got OBBESSED! i am always giving my friends advice, so please, ask away, and i will do my best to help!

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