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A couple days ago, on myspace, I was on my friends page, and I saw this guy [one of his skater friends] and I thought he was hott and he lives in my town, and he's my age, so I figured I'd add him as a friend because there are good chances of us already knowing each other. Well it turned out to be one of my ex-boyfriends from a few years ago. You know. We dated when we were young. I was like 13-14 or something. Now I am 17 & He's 18. Well when we were together he liked me a lot and he was really sweet and everything. Like a perfect boyfriend, but we were young, so it really didn't matter. Well now we found out who each other is, and we can't believe we are talking again after these years have gone by. Well the problem is, I have been talking to him again for a couple of days and we talk on the phone and stuff, but he tells me how cute I am, and he brags about me, and he TELLS ME HE LOVES ME. I don't know what to do. I don't want to ignore him anymore, I just want to be friends because I have my most recent ex boyfriend whom I love very much and he just got a job for me and everything. (link)
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If there are no feelings for this guy on your end, then you shouldn't feel bound to return any feelings that he may have. Simply tell him that you just want to be his friend. There are two ways that he'll take it: the good way where he respects you and the bad way where he gets mad because it was a blow to his ego. Don't mean to be rude, but those are pretty much the only ways guys take news like that.
But what's this about you still loving your "ex"? Perhaps this guy is going for you because he thinks tht you're not attached to anyone at the moment?
Be strong, and don't fear being frank with a guy.
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