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Hey everyone! My name is Kristen, I'm 20 and I'm a college junior studying pharmacy. I've been blessed with a really good life, and part of the reason for that is because I've learned to see GOOD in everything that happens to me.

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well theres this guy i sorta like. but my friends really dont like him. and im embarrased to go out with him or what ever. i dunno what to do cus i cant stop likeing him!

yeah you totally should stay away from him... i mean your friends will play a big part in your relationship, so you need to have their approval about who to date!!

ok im totally kidding, of course it doesn't really matter what your friends think about the guy you are dating!! well... kind of! has he done something really mean to them? has he hurt them in any way? has he embarassed them, or does he have any intentions to hurt them in the future? if you answered no to all of these, then your friends have no reason not to like him. you don't tell your friends who to date, so why should they be telling you? you can listen to their opinion and see what they think, but in the end you have to listen to your heart and go after what YOU want. you are the one who will have to deal with this boy, so the decision is all yours. it's good to listen to what your friends think, but don't let it influence you to the point where you are living your life based on what they want and not what you want.

nowdays it's hard enough to find a good guy who you like and who likes you back... you should be happy that you have found that. not everyone will approve of any relationship you ever have... and if you listened to other people, you will be single for the rest of your life. don't be embarassed, follow your heart and do what you feel is right. you like the guy? go for it! unless he has hurt your friends or doesn't treat them right, then they have no good reason to tell you to forget about him... so don't!! :) let me know if you need more help and good luck!

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(Rating: 5) thank you soo much for the advice
im really having trubble hiding who i like
and my friends just cant understand
and he would totaly like me back
he does atually
sucks right?
yeah
thanks
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