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my boyfriend recently cheated on me with my ex friend. well he admitted to it and asked my forgivness so i forgave him and my friend hasn't forgave or admitted. but two days ago she called his cell fone and left a message that told him to call her back. the next day i looked on his cell and he called her. wat shoudl i do? wat should i say to him and her? should i make her admit it and say sorry? (link)
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Cheating is probably the worst thing that can happen in a relationship next to domestic violence. You know that he called her back, but he doesn't know you know. That right there could hurt him quite a bit, because he could take it as meaning you don't trust him. In a relationship, trust is one of the most important elements. If it doesn't exist, than neither does your relationship. Sorry if that sounds harsh...
Keep things simple and straightforward. All you really need to ask him is if he responded to the message, and ask him what he said. You don't really know what he said, but it could have been anything. Don't take the angry approach even though you're hurting. If the guy said that he was sorry, trust that he's sincere unless you have solid proof otherwise.
I hope this helps... I've never been cheated on, but I've seen others go through a lot of heck in relationships. However, people have tried to screw with my girlfriend and I before and that's what it seems your "ex-friend" is trying to do. Don't trust anything she tells you. You should probably just ignore her.
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thanx i recently got hold of her and she talked about him a lot she said she was sorry and she cried a lot she also told me she was pregnant but she didn't know if it was his after ready all my answers last night i called him and broke it off thanx so much i feel way better!
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