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Hey kids! My name is Amanda, but call me Manders. I'm a psychology/neuroscience/biology student. Throw me questions and I'll throw you an answer. :)

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Why do guys always flirt with the girl after the girl stops liking him? Or at least that has always been my experience.

Here's my problem: I used to like this guy, "Bob", and he didn't like me back at thr time. Eventually, I got past that and started liking this other guy, "Todd". I'm good friends with both of them but recently "Bob" has been flirting with me again. "Todd" likes me back as well, but our relationship is on stnad by. For example, today "Bob" was playing with my hair, like running his fingers through it. I didn't object at all. Do I go back to "Bob" or do I wait for "Todd"?

Well, the keyword here is that you USED to like Bob. You don't like him anymore, so there's no point in going out with him.

You said that Todd, the guy you actually like, likes you back. That's awesome! I say that you should wait for him. Wouldn't you rather go out with someone you like than someone you don't?

Besides, you don't want Bob to think that you still have feelings for him, when you really don't. Leading him by acting like you like him could really hurt his feelings in the long run.

I hope I helped, and if you have any more questions, feel free to leave one in my inbox!
-Manders

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(Rating: 5) Thankx so much!
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