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Hey everyone! My name is Kristen, I'm 20 and I'm a college junior studying pharmacy. I've been blessed with a really good life, and part of the reason for that is because I've learned to see GOOD in everything that happens to me.

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Okay so there's this boy:). blah blah blah. He's so cute & all. He sits behind me in 7th period and I have 1st & 8th with him as well. We flirt ALOT & alot of people think we should go out. We're always together except outside of school. I signed his yearbook & he got mad because I didn't write my number! He can't stand me to be mad at him & will give me this pity sort of thing. I'm 5'2 5'3ish so I'm not exactly Shaq. The thing is, he's a little shorter than me! It really bothers me with a guy being shorter. I like him and all but I'm afraid that if I went out with him it would be wierd. I don't know what to do please help! I'll rate for GOOD answers.

hahah! hey thats so funny! im like that too... the guy has to be older and taller than me! but no seriously, if he is just a tiny bit shorter than you i think you should get over it and give the kid a chance! i mean guys grow a lot slower than girls, so before you know it he will be taller than you. one of my guy friends grew like a foot in one summer! if you guys have a meaningful long term relationship, chances are he will grow taller than you! and even if he doesn't, you will eventually get over it because of all his other great qualities! don't let that get in the way of your happiness, after all it really isn't that big of a deal... and i'm sure he hates it too! guys feel insecure when they are shorter than a girl! but it's summer now anyway, so just wear flip flops and stay away from heels when you are around him! it will be fine don't worry about it, no one will even notice or care about the height difference and neither will you eventually! :)

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(Rating: 5) ha you crack me up. but when i'm not wearing shoes & he is he's a little taller soits all good

btw thankss.

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