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last summer i met a boy in a chatroom ... yes i know chatroom. I use to go in them all the time when i was bored and whatever play around i guess anyways i started talking to this kid, and over time i actuallu started to like him. I never seena picture of him at first so i know i liked him for him and not what he looks like. We kinda dated ... ughhh sounds gay i know i know. Its not like i cant get a guy in real life, i can and i do but i always end up thinking about him. I've seen his picture only a month ago and hes alright! not cute or anything but i still love him. His personality is wonderful and i cant get enough of him, but the whole idea of meeting him from online makes me feel like a geek! i dunt noe. I had a boyfriend before i met him and i was in love or at least i thought i was. i already knew what i wanted but now i want him!! is that weird??? And i know hes not a fake!!! he has a myspace and has ALOT of friends on it from his school and we talk on the phone?? do you guys think its weird .... do you think its possible to be in love with someone you hardly know but in a way you do!!
Me too, when I saw this question...I knew I just had to answer. I was 13 but I still cared for him and everything, and things like that just happen. I have a few friends right now that I love but they live in different states. Their personalitys are awesome and I would love to just meet them! This is not weird..you know hes real...but is this realtionship realistic? Where does he live? A few states away or across the country? If your willing to work it out, see eachother from time to time...then I say go for it. If your too young to drive/fly to eachothers towns then I think you should keep talking and being friends but wait until your 18 to pursue things. So it might be a while till you can start something, but that doesnt mean you should stop talking to him until then. He's a friend, a good one. So yes its possible to love him and its possible to be in a relationship with him. Have fun with it, love is love...and if its meant to be, distance wont be a problem.

thank you for the wonderful advice. made me feel better about the whole thing. Hes 17 and im 16. he lives two states away from me. he can always drive i guess. =)

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